SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO?

When you're not happy in your marriage, but you're not sure you're ready to give up on it either.

Maybe you've been going round in circles for months.

One day you think, "We can't carry on like this." The next, you wonder whether ending your marriage would be a terrible mistake.

You've probably talked to friends. Read articles. Thought about what life might look like apart.

And yet you're still no clearer.

👉 Take the Free 3-Minute Marriage Clarity Quiz

3-minute Quiz

What if there's something important about relationships - and what happens to use when we're struggling in them - that you've simple never been taught?

Before you make one of the biggest decisions of your life, take my free 3-minute Marriage Clarity Quiz.

It won't tell you whether to stay or leave.

Instead, it will help you step back from the hurt, frustration or disconnection and look at what's happening in your marriage from a different perspective.

You may discover that there's more going on beneath the surface than you realised.

👉 Take the Free 3-minute Marriage Clarity Quiz

Hi I'm Susan

I'm a divorce solicitor - and this year my husband and I celebrated 29 years of marriage.

Like every couple, we've experienced life's ups and downs.

But many years ago, I came across an understanding of how our minds, emotions and relationships work that fundamentally changed the way I experienced conflict, communication and connection.

It has played an important part in the marriage we enjoy today.

At the same time, my work as a divorce solicitor has given me a very different perspective.

I've spent years helping couples when their relationships have reached the point of separation.

And I've often found myself wondering:

How many people really understand what's happening between them before they decide their marriage is over?

Because when you've been unhappy for a long time, eventually you start wondering: "Maybe we'd both be happier apart."

Perhaps you would.

But before you make that decision, I think there are some things worth understanding.

This quiz won't make the decision for you

Instead, I've designed it to help you explore some of the things that may be influencing how you're experiencing your relationship right now.

Because sometimes clarity about whether to stay or go comes from understanding what's actually happening between you first.

In just three minutes, the questions may help you see your situation from a perspective you haven't considered before.

And from there, you can make your own decision. Because you're beginning to see your marriage - and yourself within it - more clearly.

👉 Take the Free 3-Minute Marriage Clarity Quiz